Happily Ever Now is Raphael’s first musical release for children and families. Released under the pseudonym, G’Raph, this album offers musical adventures and essential childhood lessons from a variety of genres, including folk, blues, soul, rock, funk, reggae/ska, country and world. Self described as Pete Seeger meets the Mother Ship.
“I began recording Happily Ever Now as I set up my own studio, Humming Bird Studio, when the lockdown came in 2020. Composing, arranging, performing, producing and engineering the entire album alone was an adventure in creativity and inspiration. This album serves not only as entertainment for the entire family, but also as an introduction to many different genres of music, all of which form a root in my own musical tree. The soundscape for this album draws upon my extensive instrument collection and also includes elements of the real world, including nature, my kitchen and Samson the cat.” – G’Raph
Song List
1. Hands in the Water
2. I Can Eat a Rainbow
3. Happily Ever Now
4. I Love You Baby
5. Don’t Pick Your Nose
6. The Minor ABC’s
7. Monster Truck
8. I’m Not pErfect
9. No! No!
10. Baby Blues
11. The Only Me
12. Quiet Time
13. Owl’s Dream
Happily Ever Now: liner notes and extras…
All songs written, arranged, performed, produced and recorded by Raphael Groten a.k.a. G’Raph in his Humming Bird Studio.
Featuring Baby Ara Skye, the Coyotes of Pine Forest Children’s Center and the Cluba Sister’s: Binah and Torah’Yah.
Mastered by Jeremy Mendicino
Illustration by Gabriel Tempesta
CD design by Raphael Groten and Oliver Reckord Groten
Special thanks to all the children and families who inspired this music!
• G’Raph was not actually eating with his mouth full at the end of
“I Can Eat a Rainbow”. In fact, G’Raph does not recommend eating with your mouth full.
• All animal impersonations were used with permission of the animals themselves, except for the dinosaur, which was difficult to track down.
• Although not intended to be, “Don’t Pick Your Nose” is a great freeze dance.
Dedicated to the cultivation of kindness, joy, love and living in the present moment, happily ever now!
Lyrics, instruments and stories…
– vocals, guitars, keyboard, tenor sax, programmed bass and drums, djembe, handclaps, vocal percussion, my infamous mouth drip sound, and my bathroom sink.
“Hands in the Water” was inspired in 2019 after a preschool music class. As the children got up from music to get ready for snack, I heard a teacher tell them it was time to put their hands in the water. While the song poured out acoustically the rest of the morning as a New Orleans funk, it translated into more of a soul funk in the studio. When Covid hit, this was the first song for which I recorded and released a home video for my G’Raph YouTube channel.
Hands in the Water
by Raphael Groten
You put your hands in the water
You put your hands in the water
You put your hands in the water
and you wash ‘em
You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water
And you wet ‘em, you wet ‘em
You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water
And you wet ‘em, you wet ‘em
You gotta wet, wet, wet your fingers
And wet, wet, wet your palms
Wet, wet, wet the back of your hands
and then you wet your thumbs
You put the soap on your hands, put the soap on your hands
And you scrub ‘em, you scrub ‘em
You put the soap on your hands, put the soap on your hands
And you scrub ‘em, you scrub ‘em
You gotta scrub, scrub, scrub your fingers
And scrub, scrub, scrub your palms
Scrub, scrub, scrub the back of your hands
and then you scrub your thumbs
You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water
And you rinse ‘em, you rinse ‘em
You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water
And you rinse ‘em, you rinse ‘em
You gotta rinse, rinse, rinse your fingers
And rinse, rinse, rinse your palms
Rinse, rinse, rinse the back of your hands
and then you rinse your thumbs
You put your hands in the towel, put your hands in the towel
And you dry ‘em, you dry ‘em
You put your hands in the towel, put your hands in the towel
And you dry ‘em, you dry ‘em
You gotta dry, dry, dry your fingers
And dry, dry, dry your palms
Dry, dry, dry the back of your hands
Make sure you dry your thumbs
You put your hands in the water
You put your hands in the water
You put your hands in the water
and you wash ‘em
– vocals, steel string guitar, cavaquinho, kalimba, bass, djembe, cowbell, shaker, cajón, bells, gong, toaster, triangle, zinger toy, vocal hi-hat, my dishes & silverware
– featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah
When I was growing up I didn’t eat my vegetables. Nevertheless, I was fed natural, wholesome foods and learned, eventually, to fully enjoy eating all the colors of the rainbow. I wrote this song as inspiration and encouragement for children to explore the various colors that they eat throughout the day. I specifically left blank spaces in the middle of the song for families at home to call out the different fruits and vegetables they eat!
“I Can Eat a Rainbow” features the Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah (two of my homeschooled students and my “back-up kids”). Also featured is a chorus of G’Raph’s, my plates and silverware, my toaster (which just happened to be in the right tempo) and a triangle from my youth.
I Can Eat a Rainbow
by Raphael Groten
I can eat a rainbow
I can eat all the colors in the world
I can eat a rainbow
I can eat all the colors I am served
There’s red and orange and yellow and green
and blue and purple and something in between
Red and orange and yellow and green
and blue and purple and something in between
I can eat a rainbow
I can eat all the colors in the world
I can eat a rainbow
I can eat all the colors I am served
There’s red apples
And orange oranges
Yellow squash
And green cucumbers
Blue berries
And purple cabbages
All the colors in the world
Now you tell me… (kids and parents call out fruits and vegetables at home!)
There’s red…
Orange…
Yellow…
Green…
Blue…
Purple…
All the colors in the world
– vocals, guitar, ukelele, kalimba, hand pan, cajón, guiro, cowbell, ride cymbal, kazoo, whistle, slide whistle, jaw harp, hand claps
– featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah and Samson the cat
Happily Ever Now, the phrase, came to me in 2017 during a nightly meditation. It came as a remedy to the cultural conditioning of living happily ever after. As I sat and considered what we are taught growing up, I realized it was happily ever after… after the trials and accomplishments, after we grow up. I saw how this way of thinking creates in us an inability to be fully present with the moment we are in. As many sages and mystics have taught, only this moment exists. It was then that the phrase Happily Ever Now came to me and I began to practice being fully present with the capacity for joy and peace, regardless of my current situation. It was 3 years later, as I began working on my first kids album, that I decided to name it, Happily Ever Now. I did so to encourage perhaps the most important teaching of the album – to be present in each moment. Once I chose the name, I had to write the song! Fashioned after the folk story telling tradition, the lyrics carry the listener on a journey from my youth to adulthood into the realization of living “Happily Ever Now”.
Happily Ever Now
by Raphael Groten
When I was just a boy and the world was new
I wondered and I dreamt about the things that I would do
I thought that if I could accomplish everything I should
I’d have anything I need to set me up for good
So I believed that happiness was something up ahead
Until I learned this lesson and looked inside instead
And there I found a treasure had been waiting all along
It falls upon your lap as I sing to you this song
I’m living happily ever now
I can show you how
It takes practice as things do
But you can do it too
They told me that I could try harder and suppressed my laughter
I was taught to work towards goals of happily ever after
They said to put my head down and with no pain no gain
But now I see these teachings were driving me insane
I realized there is no need to wait until we’re done
With never ending lists of things to begin our fun
And so I turned my mind to living here and WOW
I started to experience the wonder in the now
I’m living happily ever now
Every moment holds a new adventure
I won’t wait until I’m done
Cuz getting there is all the fun
I don’t dream about the future or dwell upon the past
I focus on each moment as I watch them pass
Living happily ever now
We can show you how
Don’t wait until you’re done
Cuz being here is all the fun
We’re Living happily ever now
Every moment holds a new adventure
It took practice as things do
Now we can do it too
Living happily ever now
Means we find our joy here
We can show you how
To live happily ever now
– vocals, guitar, banjolele, wood blocks, cajón, crash cymbal, hand claps, my baby rattle, tenor sax, kazoo, vocal horns, slide whistle, record static
– featuring baby Ara Skye in his debut performance
I wrote “I Love You Baby” in 1999 as a lullaby to my first son, Oliver, when he was a newborn. I sang it to him a cappella while he fell asleep on my shoulder, in his stroller or swing. 20 years later, as I began to collect the songs for this album, I rediscovered it, wrote the chords and second bridge and brought it to life with an old time sound. This song pays homage to my love of old time jazz.
“I Love You Baby” features my dear friends’ baby, Ara Skye. I asked for some cooing and whimpering and he delivered! It also features banjolele, my baby rattle and my childhood wood blocks.
I Love You Baby
by Raphael Groten
I love you baby
yes you know that I do
I love you baby
yes you know that it’s true
I love you
little baby I do
I love when the moon and stars
are shining on us as we are a strollin’ together
I love you when the morning comes
you’re shining at me like the sun
Good morning to you, I’m smiling back too
I love you baby
yes you know that I do
I love you baby
yes you know that it’s true
I love you
little baby I do
And when the sun doesn’t shine
baby of mine
We can stay dry inside
And if I have to leave your side
don’t you cry
I will return as soon as I am able
I love you baby
yes you know that I do
I love you baby
yes you know that it’s true
I love you
little baby I do
– vocals, guitars, bass, keyboards, tenor sax, programmed drums and strings, djembe, cowbell, chekere, bells, hand claps, duckies
– featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah
“Don’t Pick Your Nose” was written in 2010 as an essential lesson while working as a traveling music teacher in several preschools. Indeed, 2010 seemed to be a prolific year for mucus, necessitating such an important teaching. Since its inception, hundreds of children across Vermont have avoided, at least temporarily, placing their fingers in their mouths and noses.
Don’t Pick Your Nose
by Raphael Groten
Don’t pick your nose
and then wipe it on your clothes
Don’t put your fingers in your mouth
but if you do then take ‘em out
And then go and wash your hands
and come back and join the band
We can rock and we can roll
and keep our germs under control
Everyone gets sick sometimes
and has to lay in bed
Achy bones and itchy eyes
and stuffies in the head
But if we keep our fingers
away from our mouths and noses
We can wake up bright and fresh
and go out and smell the roses
So don’t pick your nose
and then wipe it on your clothes
Don’t put your fingers in your mouth
but if you do then take ‘em out
And then go and wash your hands
and come back and join the band
We can rock and we can roll
and keep our germs under control
Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues
Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues
Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues
Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues sometimes
– vocals, guitar, the wee me
– featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah
I wrote “The Minor ABC’s” as a call and response while teaching in preschools. I also use it as a teaching tool for tempo, dynamics and major/minor chords. Fashioned after a G’Raph classroom experience with just my voice and guitar, it gives the listener a window into my teaching style.
The Minor ABC’s
A-B-C-D-E-F-G
H-I-J-K-L-M-N-O-P
Q-R-S
T-U-V
W-X-Y-Z
– vocals, guitar, cajón
– featuring the Coyotes of Pine Forest Children’s Center
One day while taking requests from a preschool class, one boy called out, “Monster Truck!”. I responded that I didn’t know a song about a monster truck, but that we could write one. To the delight of us all, “Monster Truck” was born instantly. A natural freeze dance, it continues to be a most popular request among children and adults.
“Monster Truck” was the first song I produced for the album in March 2020. When I completed it, it felt empty without the children’s voices. With a bit of tempo luck and studio magic, I was able to pull from two classroom “field” recordings to add the children.
Monster Truck
by Raphael Groten
Monster truck
Monster truck
Monster truck
Monster truck
Monster truck goes Rooooooooooaaaaarrrr
Monster truck
Stuck in the muck
He’s out of luck
That monster truck
Monster truck
Monster truck
Monster truck
Monster truck
– vocals, guitar, banjolele, harmonica, guiro, horse sounds
“I’m Not pErfect” honors my roots in folk/country music, while teaching the essential childhood lesson of imperfection and humility. I wrote it during production of the album so as to include this important message.
I’m Not pErfect
by Raphael Groten
I’m not perfect, no I’m not
Sometimes I get it all wrong
I sing the wrong chords and play the wrong words
especially when learning a new song
I’m not perfect, no I’m not
But whoever said we could be
I make mistakes, like everyone else
but that doesn’t mean I’m not less than I should be
I’m not perfect, no I’m not
Even when I practice a lot
So I’ll do my best
and I can rest
knowing perfect I’m not
I’m perfectly imperfect
And I forgive my mistakes
I have no use for an excuse
when I discover the err of my ways
I’m not perfect, no I’m not
But whoever thought one could be
As we make mistakes, we learn new things
and we can become so much more than we would be
I’m not perfect, no I’m not
Even when I practice a lot
So I’ll do my best
and I can rest
knowing perfect I’m not
– vocals, guitars, keyboards, bass, programmed drums, djembe, vocal percussion, finger snaps, tenor sax, slide whistle, recorder, whistle, kazoo, jaw harp, zinger toy and my grandfather’s boat whistle,
– featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah
“No! No!” was written the same day as “Monster Truck”. On this fateful day, as I was walking into a preschool, one of my 3-year-old student’s mother said to me, “Silas wrote his first song today! It’s about our relationship…it’s called No! No!”. I empathized with them both and reinforced to Silas how sometimes we all have to say no. The main hook and chorus wrote itself that morning and we worked on the verses in class.
No! No!
by Raphael Groten
When I wake up in the morning and I go to get dressed
can I put my socks on my hands?
No! No!
When I wake up in the morning and I go to get dressed
can I wear my shirt as my pants?
No! No!
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No! No!
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No! No!
When I go downstairs to have my breakfast
can I please have some chocolate cake?
No! No!
When I need a glass of water instead of gettin’ it from the faucet
can I just get it from the lake?
No! No!
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No! No!
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No! No!
When I go in the bathroom to brush my teeth
can I just brush my ears?
No! No!
And when I need to take a bath or I need to take a shower
can I just take it once a year?
No! No!
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No! No!
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
No! No!
– vocals, guitars, cajón, scat, kazoo, my baby rattle
– featuring baby Ara Skye
“Baby Blues” arrived half way through the album production as I assessed the missing genres and realized I needed to represent the blues. While the humor and double entendre in this song is aimed towards the parents, no one can resist relating to baby Are Skye’s timeless performance. I asked for wailing and I got it!
“Baby Blues” features several guitars, including my 12 string Breedlove acoustic, 1965 Gibson ES125 and 1974 Gibson Marauder.
Baby Blues
by Raphael Groten
It’s been nearly one hour since I had a drink
I spit up my last one and my diaper stinks
There’s pain in my belly, a hunger inside
If I don’t get some milk, I think I might cry
I got the baby blues
way down to my baby shoes
I got the baby blues
but first I think I’ll take a snooze
All I do is mumble when I try to talk
My mouth is so dry from eating chalk
I can’t hold myself up, can't barely crawl cross the floor
I can’t go down stairs or open this door
I got the baby blues
way down to my baby shoes
I got the baby blues
but first I think I’ll take a snooze
So tired I’m cranky, to stubborn to nap
Unless you hold me, let me sit in your lap
Up all night in my crib with bars all around
I’m kept in this prison with no love to be found
I got the baby blues
way down to my baby shoes
I got the baby blues
and still I haven’t got a clue
I lost my rattle but I found my feet
I got no paddle but I’m up a creek
I don’t know peace, can’t get no relief
I’ll eat these mashed peas until I cut teeth
Got my dirty laundry, there’s stains on my shirts
My pants no longer fit me and I need to be burped
I got the baby blues
way down to my baby shoes
I got the baby blues
I got nothin’ to lose
They try to pacify me but I throw it down
In less than half a second turn my smile to a frown
Got no more to say, but you can tell me your tale
Though I might get distracted and I surely will wail
I got the baby blues
way down to my bronzed baby shoes
I got the baby blues
I think I’ll take a snooze
– vocals, guitar, bass, cavaquinho, bamboo flute, berimbau, whistle, shaker, cowbell, zen tube, vocal quića, cajón, clave, chekere, bass drum, tambourine, guiro, triangle and a host of creature sounds.
“The Only Me” filled two voids on the album, the necessity for a counting song and the highlighting of my love for Brazilian music. Increasing in tempo from a Bossa Nova to a Samba and continuously adding layers of instrumentation and voices, as well as fun animal sounds, made this song a creative joy to produce in the studio.
“The Only Me” features cavaquinho (the Brazilian relative of the ukulele), as well as bamboo flute, berimbau, puppy, kitty, unicorn, pegasus, and dinosaur sounds.
The Only Me
by Raphael Groten
1
I’m the only me there is
2
What I get when I’m with you
3
You, your puppy dog and me
4
Add a friend and then add more
5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
1
I’m the only me there is
2
What I get when I’m with you
3
You, your kitty cat and me
4
Add a friend and then add more
5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
1
I’m the only me there is
2
What I get when I’m with you
3
You, your unicorn and me
4
Add a friend and then add more
5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
1
I’m the only me there is
2
What I get when I’m with you
3
You, your pegasus and me
4
Add a friend and then add more
5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
1
I’m the only me there is
2
What I get when I’m with you
3
You, your dinosaur and me
4
Add a friend and then add more
5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13
– vocals, guitar, crystal bowl, kalimba, hand pan, bell, medicine drum and rattle, rainstick, ocean drum, Koshi and Zephyr chimes, owl sounds
I wrote “Quiet Time” in preschools as a deep listening song with which to calm the children down after an often lively music class. Rooted in the folk tradition, this song offers the experience of meditative states through connecting with our bodies and the natural world.
“Quiet Time” introduces sound healing instruments such as medicine drum, rattles, ocean drum and chimes.
Quiet Time
by Raphael Groten
Quiet bodies
Quiet minds
Quiet ears
Quiet times
Quiet eyes
Quiet voices
Quiet room
Quiet choices
Quiet mountains
Quiet seas
Quiet love
Quiet peace
Quiet song
Quiet heart
Quiet sky
Quiet stars
Quiet days
Quiet lights
Quiet bed
Quiet night

– bamboo flute, vocals, medicine drum, rattles, gong, zen tube, crystal bowl, brass bowls, rainstick, bells, wind, owl and wolf sounds
“Owl’s Dream” was my final thought during production. As I finished “Quiet Time”, I recognized the opportunity to bring the children deeper into a soundscape experience with an instrumental piece featuring my sound healing instruments. Over the years I have introduced my classes to each of these instruments and have found the children and adults to be inevitably captivated. “Owl’s Dream” offers the listener the experience of entering the inner worlds to find the magic within. As I wrote and recorded it (which happened simultaneously) I imagined children listening intently with headphones and unlocking their imagination to yet another world of musical adventure.
(Crayon by Torah’Yah Cluba with G’Raph and Samson the cat)