Raphael Groten…a.k.a.

G’Raph

“Happily Ever Now is the culmination of two decades of working as a music teacher with children from infancy to high school. The songs on this album capture the many lessons to be discovered along the way, including health, humility, peace, silliness and love.” - G’Raph                                   

Happily Ever Now is Raphael’s first musical release for children and families. Released under the pseudonym, G’Raph, this album offers musical adventures and essential childhood lessons from a variety of genres, including folk, blues, soul, rock, funk, reggae/ska, country and world.  Self described as Pete Seeger meets the Mother Ship.

“I began recording Happily Ever Now as I set up my own studio, Humming Bird Studio, when the lockdown came in 2020. Composing, arranging, performing, producing and engineering the entire album alone was an adventure in creativity and inspiration. This album serves not only as entertainment for the entire family, but also as an introduction to many different genres of music, all of which form a root in my own musical tree. The soundscape for this album draws upon my extensive instrument collection and also includes elements of the real world, including nature, my kitchen and Samson the cat.”     – G’Raph

Song List

1. Hands in the Water

2. I Can Eat a Rainbow

3. Happily Ever Now

4. I Love You Baby

5. Don’t Pick Your Nose

6. The Minor ABC’s

7. Monster Truck

8. I’m Not pErfect

9. No! No!

10. Baby Blues

11. The Only Me

12. Quiet Time

13. Owl’s Dream

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Happily Ever Now: liner notes and extras…


All songs written, arranged, performed, produced and recorded by Raphael Groten a.k.a. G’Raph in his Humming Bird Studio.

 

Featuring Baby Ara Skye, the Coyotes of Pine Forest Children’s Center and the Cluba Sister’s: Binah and Torah’Yah.

 

Mastered by Jeremy Mendicino

Illustration by Gabriel Tempesta

CD design by Raphael Groten and Oliver Reckord Groten

 

Special thanks to all the children and families who inspired this music!

 

• G’Raph was not actually eating with his mouth full at the end of

“I Can Eat a Rainbow”. In fact, G’Raph does not recommend eating with your mouth full.


• All animal impersonations were used with permission of the animals themselves, except for the dinosaur, which was difficult to track down.


• Although not intended to be, “Don’t Pick Your Nose” is a great freeze dance.


Dedicated to the cultivation of kindness, joy, love and living in the present moment, happily ever now!

Original “G’Raph – Happily Ever Now” pencil sketch by Gabriel Tempesta.

Lyrics, instruments and stories…

Frequently Asked Questions
    Hands in the Water

        – vocals, guitars, keyboard, tenor sax, programmed bass and drums, djembe, handclaps, vocal percussion, my infamous mouth drip sound, and my bathroom sink.


        “Hands in the Water” was inspired in 2019 after a preschool music class. As the children got up from music to get ready for snack, I heard a teacher tell them it was time to put their hands in the water. While the song poured out acoustically the rest of the morning as a New Orleans funk, it translated into more of a soul funk in the studio. When Covid hit, this was the first song for which I recorded and released a home video for my G’Raph YouTube channel.


        Hands in the Water  

        by Raphael Groten


        You put your hands in the water

        You put your hands in the water

        You put your hands in the water

        and you wash ‘em


        You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water

        And you wet ‘em, you wet ‘em

        You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water

        And you wet ‘em, you wet ‘em


        You gotta wet, wet, wet your fingers

        And wet, wet, wet your palms

        Wet, wet, wet the back of your hands

        and then you wet your thumbs


        You put the soap on your hands, put the soap on your hands

        And you scrub ‘em, you scrub ‘em

        You put the soap on your hands, put the soap on your hands

        And you scrub ‘em, you scrub ‘em


        You gotta scrub, scrub, scrub your fingers

        And scrub, scrub, scrub your palms

        Scrub, scrub, scrub the back of your hands

        and then you scrub your thumbs


        You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water

        And you rinse ‘em, you rinse ‘em

        You put your hands in the water, put your hands in the water

        And you rinse ‘em, you rinse ‘em


        You gotta rinse, rinse, rinse your fingers

        And rinse, rinse, rinse your palms

        Rinse, rinse, rinse the back of your hands

        and then you rinse your thumbs


        You put your hands in the towel, put your hands in the towel

        And you dry ‘em, you dry ‘em

        You put your hands in the towel, put your hands in the towel

        And you dry ‘em, you dry ‘em


        You gotta dry, dry, dry your fingers

        And dry, dry, dry your palms

        Dry, dry, dry the back of your hands

        Make sure you dry your thumbs


        You put your hands in the water

        You put your hands in the water

        You put your hands in the water

        and you wash ‘em

    I Can Eat a Rainbow

        – vocals, steel string guitar, cavaquinho, kalimba, bass, djembe, cowbell, shaker, cajón, bells, gong, toaster, triangle, zinger toy, vocal hi-hat, my dishes & silverware


        – featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah


        When I was growing up I didn’t eat my vegetables. Nevertheless, I was fed natural, wholesome foods and learned, eventually, to fully enjoy eating all the colors of the rainbow. I wrote this song as inspiration and encouragement for children to explore the various colors that they eat throughout the day. I specifically left blank spaces in the middle of the song for families at home to call out the different fruits and vegetables they eat!


        “I Can Eat a Rainbow” features the Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah (two of my homeschooled students and my “back-up kids”). Also featured is a chorus of G’Raph’s, my plates and silverware, my toaster (which just happened to be in the right tempo) and a triangle from my youth.


        I Can Eat a Rainbow

        by Raphael Groten


        I can eat a rainbow

        I can eat all the colors in the world

        I can eat a rainbow

        I can eat all the colors I am served


        There’s red and orange and yellow and green

        and blue and purple and something in between

        Red and orange and yellow and green

        and blue and purple and something in between


        I can eat a rainbow

        I can eat all the colors in the world

        I can eat a rainbow

        I can eat all the colors I am served


        There’s red apples

        And orange oranges

        Yellow squash

        And green cucumbers

        Blue berries

        And purple cabbages

        All the colors in the world


        Now you tell me… (kids and parents call out fruits and vegetables at home!)


        There’s red…

        Orange…

        Yellow…

        Green…

        Blue…

        Purple…

        All the colors in the world

    Happily Ever Now

        – vocals, guitar, ukelele, kalimba, hand pan, cajón, guiro, cowbell, ride cymbal, kazoo, whistle, slide whistle, jaw harp, hand claps


        – featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah and Samson the cat


        Happily Ever Now, the phrase, came to me in 2017 during a nightly meditation. It came as a remedy to the cultural conditioning of living happily ever after. As I sat and considered what we are taught growing up, I realized it was happily ever after… after the trials and accomplishments, after we grow up. I saw how this way of thinking creates in us an inability to be fully present with the moment we are in. As many sages and mystics have taught, only this moment exists. It was then that the phrase Happily Ever Now came to me and I began to practice being fully present with the capacity for joy and peace, regardless of my current situation. It was 3 years later, as I began working on my first kids album, that I decided to name it, Happily Ever Now. I did so to encourage perhaps the most important teaching of the album – to be present in each moment. Once I chose the name, I had to write the song! Fashioned after the folk story telling tradition, the lyrics carry the listener on a journey from my youth to adulthood into the realization of living “Happily Ever Now”.


        Happily Ever Now

        by Raphael Groten


        When I was just a boy and the world was new

        I wondered and I dreamt about the things that I would do

        I thought that if I could accomplish everything I should

        I’d have anything I need to set me up for good


        So I believed that happiness was something up ahead

        Until I learned this lesson and looked inside instead

        And there I found a treasure had been waiting all along

        It falls upon your lap as I sing to you this song


        I’m living happily ever now

        I can show you how

        It takes practice as things do

        But you can do it too


        They told me that I could try harder and suppressed my laughter

        I was taught to work towards goals of happily ever after

        They said to put my head down and with no pain no gain

        But now I see these teachings were driving me insane


        I realized there is no need to wait until we’re done

        With never ending lists of things to begin our fun

        And so I turned my mind to living here and WOW

        I started to experience the wonder in the now


        I’m living happily ever now

        Every moment holds a new adventure

        I won’t wait until I’m done

        Cuz getting there is all the fun


        I don’t dream about the future or dwell upon the past

        I focus on each moment as I watch them pass


        Living happily ever now

        We can show you how

        Don’t wait until you’re done

        Cuz being here is all the fun


        We’re Living happily ever now

        Every moment holds a new adventure

        It took practice as things do

        Now we can do it too


        Living happily ever now

        Means we find our joy here

        We can show you how

        To live happily ever now

    I Love you Baby

        – vocals, guitar, banjolele, wood blocks, cajón, crash cymbal, hand claps, my baby rattle, tenor sax, kazoo, vocal horns, slide whistle, record static


        – featuring baby Ara Skye in his debut performance


        I wrote “I Love You Baby” in 1999 as a lullaby to my first son, Oliver, when he was a newborn. I sang it to him a cappella while he fell asleep on my shoulder, in his stroller or swing. 20 years later, as I began to collect the songs for this album, I rediscovered it, wrote the chords and second bridge and brought it to life with an old time sound. This song pays homage to my love of old time jazz.


        “I Love You Baby” features my dear friends’ baby, Ara Skye. I asked for some cooing and whimpering and he delivered! It also features banjolele, my baby rattle and my childhood wood blocks.


        I Love You Baby

        by Raphael Groten


        I love you baby

        yes you know that I do

        I love you baby

        yes you know that it’s true

        I love you

        little baby I do


        I love when the moon and stars

        are shining on us as we are a strollin’ together

        I love you when the morning comes

        you’re shining at me like the sun

        Good morning to you, I’m smiling back too


        I love you baby

        yes you know that I do

        I love you baby

        yes you know that it’s true

        I love you

        little baby I do


        And when the sun doesn’t shine

        baby of mine

        We can stay dry inside

        And if I have to leave your side

        don’t you cry

        I will return as soon as I am able


        I love you baby

        yes you know that I do

        I love you baby

        yes you know that it’s true

        I love you

        little baby I do

    Don’t Pick Your Nose

        – vocals, guitars, bass, keyboards, tenor sax, programmed drums and strings, djembe, cowbell, chekere, bells, hand claps, duckies


        – featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah


        “Don’t Pick Your Nose” was written in 2010 as an essential lesson while working as a traveling music teacher in several preschools. Indeed, 2010 seemed to be a prolific year for mucus, necessitating such an important teaching. Since its inception, hundreds of children across Vermont have avoided, at least temporarily, placing their fingers in their mouths and noses.


        Don’t Pick Your Nose

        by Raphael Groten


        Don’t pick your nose

        and then wipe it on your clothes

        Don’t put your fingers in your mouth

        but if you do then take ‘em out

        And then go and wash your hands

        and come back and join the band

        We can rock and we can roll

        and keep our germs under control


        Everyone gets sick sometimes

        and has to lay in bed

        Achy bones and itchy eyes

        and stuffies in the head

        But if we keep our fingers

        away from our mouths and noses

        We can wake up bright and fresh

        and go out and smell the roses


        So don’t pick your nose

        and then wipe it on your clothes

        Don’t put your fingers in your mouth

        but if you do then take ‘em out

        And then go and wash your hands

        and come back and join the band

        We can rock and we can roll

        and keep our germs under control


        Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues

        Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues

        Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues

        Tissues, tissues, we all need tissues sometimes

    The Minor ABC’s

        – vocals, guitar, the wee me


        – featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah


        I wrote “The Minor ABC’s” as a call and response while teaching in preschools. I also use it as a teaching tool for tempo, dynamics and major/minor chords. Fashioned after a G’Raph classroom experience with just my voice and guitar, it gives the listener a window into my teaching style.


        The Minor ABC’s


        A-B-C-D-E-F-G


        H-I-J-K-L-M-N-O-P


        Q-R-S


        T-U-V


        W-X-Y-Z

    Monster Truck

        – vocals, guitar, cajón


        – featuring the Coyotes of Pine Forest Children’s Center


        One day while taking requests from a preschool class, one boy called out, “Monster Truck!”. I responded that I didn’t know a song about a monster truck, but that we could write one. To the delight of us all, “Monster Truck” was born instantly. A natural freeze dance, it continues to be a most popular request among children and adults.


        “Monster Truck” was the first song I produced for the album in March 2020. When I completed it, it felt empty without the children’s voices. With a bit of tempo luck and studio magic, I was able to pull from two classroom “field” recordings to add the children. 


        Monster Truck

        by Raphael Groten


        Monster truck

        Monster truck

        Monster truck

        Monster truck


        Monster truck goes Rooooooooooaaaaarrrr

        Monster truck


        Stuck in the muck

        He’s out of luck

        That monster truck


        Monster truck

        Monster truck

        Monster truck

        Monster truck

    I’m Not pErfect

        – vocals, guitar, banjolele, harmonica, guiro, horse sounds


        “I’m Not pErfect” honors my roots in folk/country music, while teaching the essential childhood lesson of imperfection and humility. I wrote it during production of the album so as to include this important message.


        I’m Not pErfect

        by Raphael Groten


        I’m not perfect, no I’m not

        Sometimes I get it all wrong

        I sing the wrong chords and play the wrong words

        especially when learning a new song


        I’m not perfect, no I’m not

        But whoever said we could be

        I make mistakes, like everyone else

        but that doesn’t mean I’m not less than I should be


        I’m not perfect, no I’m not

        Even when I practice a lot

        So I’ll do my best

        and I can rest

        knowing perfect I’m not


        I’m perfectly imperfect

        And I forgive my mistakes

        I have no use for an excuse

        when I discover the err of my ways


        I’m not perfect, no I’m not

        But whoever thought one could be

        As we make mistakes, we learn new things

        and we can become so much more than we would be


        I’m not perfect, no I’m not

        Even when I practice a lot

        So I’ll do my best

        and I can rest

        knowing perfect I’m not

    No! No!

        – vocals, guitars, keyboards, bass, programmed drums, djembe, vocal percussion, finger snaps, tenor sax, slide whistle, recorder, whistle, kazoo, jaw harp, zinger toy and my grandfather’s boat whistle,


        – featuring The Cluba Sisters: Binah and Torah’Yah


        “No! No!” was written the same day as “Monster Truck”. On this fateful day, as I was walking into a preschool, one of my 3-year-old student’s mother said to me, “Silas wrote his first song today! It’s about our relationship…it’s called No! No!”. I empathized with them both and reinforced to Silas how sometimes we all have to say no. The main hook and chorus wrote itself that morning and we worked on the verses in class.


        No! No!

        by Raphael Groten


        When I wake up in the morning and I go to get dressed

        can I put my socks on my hands?

        No! No!

        When I wake up in the morning and I go to get dressed

        can I wear my shirt as my pants?

        No! No!


        No, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo

        no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no

        No! No!

        No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo

        no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no

        No! No!


        When I go downstairs to have my breakfast

        can I please have some chocolate cake?

        No! No!

        When I need a glass of water instead of gettin’ it from the faucet

        can I just get it from the lake?

        No! No!


        No, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo

        no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no

        No! No!

        No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo

        no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no

        No! No!


        When I go in the bathroom to brush my teeth

        can I just brush my ears?

        No! No!

        And when I need to take a bath or I need to take a shower

        can I just take it once a year?

        No! No!


        No, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo

        no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no

        No! No!

        No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, nooo

        no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no


        No! No!

    Baby Blues

        – vocals, guitars, cajón, scat, kazoo, my baby rattle


        – featuring baby Ara Skye


        “Baby Blues” arrived half way through the album production as I assessed the missing genres and realized I needed to represent the blues. While the humor and double entendre in this song is aimed towards the parents, no one can resist relating to baby Are Skye’s timeless performance. I asked for wailing and I got it!


        “Baby Blues” features several guitars, including my 12 string Breedlove acoustic, 1965 Gibson ES125 and 1974 Gibson Marauder.


        Baby Blues

        by Raphael Groten


        It’s been nearly one hour since I had a drink

        I spit up my last one and my diaper stinks

        There’s pain in my belly, a hunger inside

        If I don’t get some milk, I think I might cry


        I got the baby blues

        way down to my baby shoes

        I got the baby blues

        but first I think I’ll take a snooze


        All I do is mumble when I try to talk

        My mouth is so dry from eating chalk

        I can’t hold myself up, can't barely crawl cross the floor

        I can’t go down stairs or open this door


        I got the baby blues

        way down to my baby shoes

        I got the baby blues

        but first I think I’ll take a snooze


        So tired I’m cranky, to stubborn to nap

        Unless you hold me, let me sit in your lap

        Up all night in my crib with bars all around

        I’m kept in this prison with no love to be found


        I got the baby blues

        way down to my baby shoes

        I got the baby blues

        and still I haven’t got a clue


        I lost my rattle but I found my feet

        I got no paddle but I’m up a creek


        I don’t know peace, can’t get no relief

        I’ll eat these mashed peas until I cut teeth

        Got my dirty laundry, there’s stains on my shirts

        My pants no longer fit me and I need to be burped


        I got the baby blues

        way down to my baby shoes

        I got the baby blues

        I got nothin’ to lose


        They try to pacify me but I throw it down

        In less than half a second turn my smile to a frown


        Got no more to say, but you can tell me your tale

        Though I might get distracted and I surely will wail


        I got the baby blues

        way down to my bronzed baby shoes

        I got the baby blues

        I think I’ll take a snooze

    The Only Me

        – vocals, guitar, bass, cavaquinho, bamboo flute, berimbau, whistle, shaker, cowbell, zen tube, vocal quića, cajón, clave, chekere, bass drum, tambourine, guiro, triangle and a host of creature sounds.


        “The Only Me” filled two voids on the album, the necessity for a counting song and the highlighting of my love for Brazilian music. Increasing in tempo from a Bossa Nova to a Samba and continuously adding layers of instrumentation and voices, as well as fun animal sounds, made this song a creative joy to produce in the studio.


        “The Only Me” features cavaquinho (the Brazilian relative of the ukulele), as well as bamboo flute, berimbau, puppy, kitty, unicorn, pegasus, and dinosaur sounds.


        The Only Me

        by Raphael Groten


        1

        I’m the only me there is

        2

        What I get when I’m with you

        3

        You, your puppy dog and me

        4

        Add a friend and then add more

        5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11


        1

        I’m the only me there is

        2

        What I get when I’m with you

        3

        You, your kitty cat and me

        4

        Add a friend and then add more

        5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11


        1

        I’m the only me there is

        2

        What I get when I’m with you

        3

        You, your unicorn and me

        4

        Add a friend and then add more

        5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11


        1

        I’m the only me there is

        2

        What I get when I’m with you

        3

        You, your pegasus and me

        4

        Add a friend and then add more

        5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11


        1

        I’m the only me there is

        2

        What I get when I’m with you

        3

        You, your dinosaur and me

        4

        Add a friend and then add more

        5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13

    Quiet Time

        – vocals, guitar, crystal bowl, kalimba, hand pan, bell, medicine drum and rattle,   rainstick, ocean drum, Koshi and Zephyr chimes, owl sounds


        I wrote “Quiet Time” in preschools as a deep listening song with which to calm the children down after an often lively music class. Rooted in the folk tradition, this song offers the experience of meditative states through connecting with our bodies and the natural world. 


        “Quiet Time” introduces sound healing instruments such as medicine drum, rattles, ocean drum and chimes.


        Quiet Time

        by Raphael Groten


        Quiet bodies

        Quiet minds

        Quiet ears

        Quiet times


        Quiet eyes

        Quiet voices

        Quiet room

        Quiet choices


        Quiet mountains

        Quiet seas

        Quiet love

        Quiet peace


        Quiet song

        Quiet heart

        Quiet sky

        Quiet stars


        Quiet days

        Quiet lights

        Quiet bed

        Quiet night

    Owl’s Dream

        – bamboo flute, vocals, medicine drum, rattles, gong, zen tube, crystal bowl,   brass bowls, rainstick, bells, wind, owl and wolf sounds


        “Owl’s Dream” was my final thought during production. As I finished “Quiet Time”, I recognized the opportunity to bring the children deeper into a soundscape experience with an instrumental piece featuring my sound healing instruments. Over the years I have introduced my classes to each of these instruments and have found the children and adults to be inevitably captivated. “Owl’s Dream” offers the listener the experience of entering the inner worlds to find the magic within. As I wrote and recorded it (which happened simultaneously) I imagined children listening intently with headphones and unlocking their imagination to yet another world of musical adventure.


        (Crayon by Torah’Yah Cluba with G’Raph and Samson the cat)

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